New Faces Gentle Introduction Game
Help baby meet new people at their own pace with this gradual introduction approach — supporting healthy stranger awareness development.
What You'll Need
No materials — just a willing visitor and a comfortable space
How to Play
When a visitor arrives, hold baby securely in your arms facing them.
Start at a comfortable distance — about three feet away from the new person.
Speak to the visitor in a warm, cheerful tone so baby hears you're relaxed with this person.
Let the visitor wave and smile at baby from a distance, without reaching out to take them.
Watch baby's cues closely. Curious leaning forward? Move a tiny bit closer.
If baby buries their face or clings, stay right where you are and keep chatting calmly.
Let baby reach out on their own terms. When they do, narrate it: "You said hi! That's so brave."
Why It Works
Stranger awareness is a normal, healthy milestone that usually emerges around 4-6 months. It means baby has learned to tell the difference between familiar and unfamiliar people — that's sophisticated social thinking. This gentle approach respects baby's pace while showing them that new people can be safe. You're their secure base, and knowing you're right there gives them the confidence to eventually explore.
Tips
Ask visitors not to grab baby immediately. A slow approach prevents overwhelm and meltdowns.
Your calm voice is baby's biggest cue. If you sound happy, baby is more likely to feel safe.
Some babies warm up in minutes, others take an entire visit. Both are perfectly normal.
If baby cries, don't force it. Hold them close, reassure them, and try again another day.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does this activity take?
This activity takes about 10 min, with 0 min of preparation time beforehand.
What age is this activity for?
This activity is designed for 0-6 months. You can adapt it for younger or older children by adjusting the complexity.
Can this be done indoors or outdoors?
This activity works great both indoors and outdoors, giving you flexibility based on the weather or your space.
How difficult is this activity?
This is an easy activity that requires minimal setup and supervision. Great for busy days or when you need something quick.
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