Social Media Kindness Discussion Night
Discuss real scenarios about online interactions — what's kind, what's harmful, and how to be a good digital citizen and friend.
What You'll Need
- 1Printed scenario cards (optional)
- 2Paper for writing the family digital agreement
- 3Markers
What You'll Need
Printed scenario cards (optional — you can discuss from memory)
Paper for writing a family digital kindness agreement
Markers
How to Play
Open the conversation casually: "Let's talk about how people treat each other online."
Scenario 1: "Someone posts a photo and gets a mean comment. What should you do?"
Explore options together: report it, defend the person publicly, send them a supportive private message, tell an adult.
Scenario 2: "A friend sends you a screenshot of someone's private message. What now?"
Discuss digital boundaries: privacy, consent, the permanence of what you post.
Together, write a "Digital Kindness Agreement" with 3-5 commitments: "We don't share private messages. We stand up for others. We think before we post."
Everyone signs. Post it near the computer.
Why It Works
Online social dynamics are a major part of tweens' lives, and many parents avoid the conversation until something goes wrong. Proactive discussions about digital kindness give kids frameworks for navigating tricky situations before they encounter them. The scenario format removes the personal pressure — it's easier to think about what "someone" should do than to talk about what happened to you. The family agreement creates shared expectations, and the signing creates commitment. Kids who have practiced these conversations at home are better equipped to make good choices in the moment.
Tips
Don't lecture. Ask questions and listen. "What would you do?" is more powerful than "You should..."
Use real (anonymized) scenarios from the news or from your child's world.
Revisit the conversation regularly. Online dynamics change fast, and new situations emerge.
The goal is open dialogue, not fear. Frame the internet as a tool that requires the same kindness skills as real life.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does this activity take?
This activity takes about 30 min, with 10 min of preparation time beforehand.
What materials do I need?
You'll need: printed scenario cards (optional), paper for writing the family digital agreement, markers.
What age is this activity for?
This activity is designed for 8-12 years. You can adapt it for younger or older children by adjusting the complexity.
Can this be done indoors?
This activity is designed for indoor play, making it perfect for rainy days or when you're staying inside.
How difficult is this activity?
This activity has a moderate difficulty level. It may require some preparation or guidance, but is manageable for most families.
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